20 Signs a Woman is Flirting with Your Husband + Tips How to Deal
Ever heard about women are from Venus and men are from mars? Well, this is said because women are very emotional. And if you want to really know what a woman is like to her husband? She loves him to the deepest of her heart and wouldn't want him to even be near other women. Although they do allow him because they don't want to scare him away. Women are always feeling uncomfortable even if they trust their man and he is out there with their female friends. They are so cautious and overthinking about matters at times, that we can say most of the time, the negative feelings they are getting are true. Even if they try to overlook them, they regret later.
When you are with your husband and you find these signs in another woman, then stand your guard ladies! It is obvious she is flirting with your man.
- Body Language
A woman is always keeping a good composure if she wants another guy to like her. She will keep her feminine and attractive side visible. She will act like a cat in other words. Have you ever seen a cat behave in front of the male cat?
- Her Gaze
A women’s gaze can tell a lot. Women don’t normally stare at men with feelings coming out of their eyes. If you are a woman, you know what I mean. And if she’s someone trying to en-capture him with her eyes, you will know by her gaze. She will look at him seriously, with her eyes showing concern, and much more.
- Her Dressing
She will always be dressed to impress. She might try to look better than you all the time, all ready to go. She might dress according to your husband's taste at times.
- Her availability for him
If you are not there, you find her there with him or if you are there and somehow she is there too. You are trying to be there for him, but you find her getting in the way, there’s your alert signal.
- The competition would be visible
You will find her trying to compete with you in everything just to show or prove that she is better than you. You’ll also see she’s going to note everything in her brain.
- She will cook for him
She will cook for him more often just to get his compliments or praises. As they say, the key to a man's heart or getting close to him is by his tummy.
- She will be kind to him
No matter what an issue, she will put on her best behavior and be kind to him. She will pose as the kindest person around him even if you know how she is at times.
- She will try to be your better version
You can find her being better than you or imposing as she’s better than you, especially around him. When you have fights, even tiny arguments, she’ll say something blending a better image in his mind.
- She will touch him more often
You will find him touching him more often either while talking or giving pats, or fist bumps, etc.
- She will wear revealing clothes
No matter what her dressing is, when she’s around him for some particular reasons, her dressing is not simple at all. She will try to wear seductive clothing.
- She will not like you
You will feel her dislike coming from her eyes, her words, her entire being just for you. Even her smile would be fake or evil.
- She’ll discuss her boyfriend’s bad behavior
She’ll be discussing her boyfriend’s bad behavior with your husband. She’ll show how pitiful she is and how much she loves him although he’s not attending her too well. You might find this on and on about.
- You’ll constantly have bad vibes
The women’s gut feeling is like her 6th sense. If you find yourself having bad vibes about a girl, then start being cautious and keep your eyes and ears open. But no matter what don’t show that you are on your guard.
- She’ll do everything he likes
Even if she's busy or has a tight schedule she'll take specific time out just to be around him and do the things he likes. Like play sports, videogames, etc. with him.
- She’ll show she is better than you
She will give particular signs to your guy that he made the wrong choice, and she is better than you. She will do opposite to your mistakes, and she’ll do better than your good deeds.
- She’ll be there for him when he’s in bad shape
If he's facing something or going through a tantrum then she'll be there supporting or consoling him. You may find her supporting her more in your absence or when you are mostly busy with something else.
- She'll try to make misunderstandings between you two
She might do some gossip or create some misunderstandings about you in his head. You might find him arguing on trivial matters, even though it never mattered much, but now it does.
- She’ll badmouth you
You'll see her talking negatively about you in front of your husband or giving comments and making your faults, or negativities really obvious to him.
- She’ll text or call him all the time
One of the most obvious signs would be of course his cell phone beeping from her texts all the time. She'll text him whenever she's free, or telling bout her issues to him and maybe sharing her deep self with him. You might find her calling late at night, not realizing or taking precautions that he's your husband.
- She’ll wear sensual perfumes
The seductive of all is a perfume to a woman. You can sense her strong scent, every time she's around him. Either she’s luring him, or she’s just trying to stick that scent within his memory. Beware.
Tips to deal with them and your emotions
- Don’t fall to her level
Whatever you do, do not make the same mistakes that she is doing, and definitely don’t copy her. Like you’ve heard so many times, there won’t stay a difference and you might lose your image in your husband’s eyes.
- Trust your man
Try talking to your man and tell him how she's so on to him all the time. But make sure to tell him that you will and trust him and not meddle in between. It will make him respect you even more.
- Assure her of your support too
If you find her wining to your husband about her issues, why don't you just go to her and tell her that you also know her issues and you're ready to help her in every way? This will be a backstab as she'd know that her conversation is not too private and she is dealing with a strong woman.
- Talk to her upfront
This point comes when you have done everything you can and she’s the kind of person who won’t stop, and maybe your husband has gotten close to her, then go to her and talk to her why she’s doing this? Ask her what her issue is? Ask her what's she trying to gain? Then be nice to her if she's willing, otherwise step back and let her play but tell her to her face that you won't do anything or stoop to her low level, and you husband is not the kind of guy who would two times or play with her if she is so confident she might as well go make a bold move. These sentences are enough to trigger any woman, she'll feel weak or she'll fire to your husband to do something crazy and the next thing you know would be crystal clear to you.
- Don’t let it get to your head and boil you
Imagine, a lady flirts with a guy in love with you. She's hoping you do have everything. The condition is really humorous. It's like it's written about high school. Laugh at the case, instead of getting pathosy about it. You marry this guy, instead of letting a crazy woman get into your mind, and concentrate on your marriage.
- Focus on your marriage and your hubby
When women see a window of chance, they appear to flirt with men. They exploit the weakness of marriage and try to seduce men. When this woman flirts with your husband, she will attempt to exploit the lost spark or the battle between you and your husband. You will begin to reflect on your wedding and relive the light. Let your husband know and understand that you love him. Load your union with even more seasoning. Love your husband in such a way that he won’t even have time to reply to any other woman.
Tip to sip!
This is mainly based on a situation in which someone else flirts–but you need to be realistic about the position of your friend. It is not their fault if someone flirts with them, so if your partner accepts or embraces them, and also flirts with someone, you will stand back and take a bigger look. That seems like a deeper, much bigger partnership issue you need to tackle. You may want to ask yourself why if you find yourself in this position with your partner over and over again.
It may not feel nice to see someone else flirting with your friend, but sometimes it would actually be innocent–one cannot regulate how others behave, their attitude, or their manner of speech. Even if you feel like your companion supports it — this could be a bigger concern if that person is a daily part of your life. Speak about nipping it into your bud with your partner and, if you have to, interfere personally with the guy. All in the bigger picture has an effect on your friendship. When this is a big problem, you'll learn.
